Leading Ain't Easy
Leadership looks shiny on social media. But the reality is it’s messy, isolating, and full of self-doubt. Leading Ain’t Easy pulls back the curtain on the side of leadership nobody puts on their résumé.
Hosted by Ryan Calkins (Marine Corps veteran, career/leadership coach, and founder of Reframe & Rise) and Erny Epley (public-sector leader and founder of Bus Pro Network), this show dives into the raw, unfiltered truths of leading others; whether it’s in the military, the public sector, or the private world of business.
We’re not here with corporate buzzwords or textbook definitions. Instead, you’ll hear:
- Honest stories about the challenges and failures that shaped us.
- Real conversations about the doubts and decisions leaders wrestle with every day.
- Lessons, frameworks, and laughs that remind you you’re not alone in the struggle.
Episodes run 45-60 minutes (long enough to go deep, short enough for a commute) and drop weekly. Some weeks it’s just us, other weeks we’ll bring in guests (current and aspiring leaders) to share their own unfiltered journeys.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re cut out for this role, questioned yourself after making a hard call, or felt like a fraud even with the title… this podcast is for you.
Because leading ain’t easy, but you don’t have to do it alone.
Leading Ain't Easy
Latest Episodes
From the Corner Office to the Zoom Room
The corner office used to be shorthand for authority. Now leadership happens through a camera icon, a chat message, and a lot of trust you didn't have to build the same way before. Ryan Calkins and John Moore have a real conversation about what...
The Call Nobody Wants to Make
Ryan Calkins and John Moore get into what it actually feels like to be forced into a decision when you don't have nearly enough information, but can't wait any longer. An honest conversation about perfectionism, pressure from above, who absorbs...
Fix Your Face
Most leaders know they're supposed to stay composed. Very few talk honestly about how hard that actually is, or what it costs when you don't.Ryan Calkins and Erny Epley get into the part nobody puts in a leadership manual: the moment you...
When Being the Bottleneck Is the Whole Problem
Most of us started our careers being told what to do. Some of us had bosses who yelled. Some had bosses who kept everything to themselves (every client, every process, every piece of institutional knowledge) because that's how they stayed neces...
When Your Best Employee Keeps Asking for a Promotion
When a high performer keeps pushing for a promotion, the easy instinct is to either reward the performance or buy time. But Ryan Calkins and John Moore get into why both of those can backfire, and what's actually underneath a promotion decision...
