Leading Ain't Easy
Leadership looks shiny on social media. But the reality is it’s messy, isolating, and full of self-doubt. Leading Ain’t Easy pulls back the curtain on the side of leadership nobody puts on their résumé.
Hosted by Ryan Calkins (Marine Corps veteran, career/leadership coach, and founder of Reframe & Rise) and Erny Epley (public-sector leader and founder of Bus Pro Network), this show dives into the raw, unfiltered truths of leading others; whether it’s in the military, the public sector, or the private world of business.
We’re not here with corporate buzzwords or textbook definitions. Instead, you’ll hear:
- Honest stories about the challenges and failures that shaped us.
- Real conversations about the doubts and decisions leaders wrestle with every day.
- Lessons, frameworks, and laughs that remind you you’re not alone in the struggle.
Episodes run 45-60 minutes (long enough to go deep, short enough for a commute) and drop weekly. Some weeks it’s just us, other weeks we’ll bring in guests (current and aspiring leaders) to share their own unfiltered journeys.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re cut out for this role, questioned yourself after making a hard call, or felt like a fraud even with the title… this podcast is for you.
Because leading ain’t easy, but you don’t have to do it alone.
Leading Ain't Easy
Latest Episodes
When Your Best Employee Keeps Asking for a Promotion
When a high performer keeps pushing for a promotion, the easy instinct is to either reward the performance or buy time. But Ryan Calkins and John Moore get into why both of those can backfire, and what's actually underneath a promotion decision...
"Soft Skills" Aren't Soft — They're the Hardest Part of Leading
Most leadership development focuses on the technical side: how to run a meeting, how to build a plan, how to hit a number. Emotional intelligence doesn't fit neatly on a training checklist. And that gap, Ryan Calkins and John Moore argue, is co...
Why "We're Like a Family" Can Backfire
The "we're like a family here" pitch is everywhere... and for a lot of people, it sounds like exactly what they want. Belonging. Loyalty. People who have your back.But Ryan Calkins and John Moore have both lived the other side of that st...
The Generation Gap: Managing Boomers, Millennials, and Gen Z on the Same Team
Ryan Calkins and John Moore get into one of the most frustrating realities of modern management: you're not leading one kind of person, you're leading four generations at once, each shaped by different economics, different work cultures, and wi...
When Management Won't Do Anything About a Problem Employee (feat. John Moore)
Every team has had one; the person everyone's complained about, more than once, and nothing visibly changes. Before you write off your leadership, Ryan Calkins, John Moore, and ErnyEpley get into what you might not be seeing, and what it actual...
